"Trust your own instinct , no matter what people might say about you , no matter what criticism and negativity might come your way but just being who you are is important...-"
I'm becoming a coffee snob, but since I get my daily coffee at work(secret thing!), I pretty much drink the same thing everyday:
Folger's with 1 teaspoon of raw turbinado sugar (which I bring from home), 1 packet of equal, and 1 tablespoon of creamer.
At home, I drink the latest thing I'm trying. Right now it's still Folger's, but the dark roast Columbian - I love it. I brew it with cinnamon and cloves added to the grounds, and then take it with 1 teaspoon of raw turbinado sugar, 1 packet of equal, and 1 tablespoon of sugar free vanilla caramel coffee mate.
If at Starbucks, I might try their coffee of the day, but I have a hard time resisting a skinny cinnamon dulce latte with an extra shot - mmmmmm.
The best coffee I ever had, though, was when I was in Davao City . Very strong, very dark, and very thick stuff where the smell takes up the entire room, and just-picked-and-roasted-yesterday fresh (literally). Mixed it with a lot of brown sugar and real cream, and the flavor was out of this world. Very bad for me, but oh so good.
Kaya one early morning chikahan kami bakit LOves nila magkakapi...hmmmpp i want to know their personal opinions...
Ramon : I drink coffee everday too! I love the french vanilla coffee with french vanilla creamer. Almost a knock off of an expensive latte at Starbucks!
Joel : I need morning coffee as well. I drink one 16-oz travel mug full every week day morning. At home on the weekends I make a 4-cup pot or maybe two. I like a really mild coffee like Dunkin Donuts. We have a really good blend at work (odd, since most work-provided coffee tends to be horrible and bitter) but its a no-name brand. I just buy a regular breakfast blend at home. Light creamer and splenda. Sometimes as a treat (if I know the workday is going to be hell, for example) I get a large from Dunkin Donuts with REAL cream and splenda.
Micz: I am totally a coffee snob. I like a mild to medium roast so you can still taste the original bean, not just that burnt flavour of a very dark roast like Starbucks. I drink it black, and I usually have two in the morning and maybe one in the afternoon.
Roxan: I also love my coffee. I'm not right until I've had my coffee as soon as I get out of bed. Also after every meal all I want is a cup of coffee.
Grace: I'm really more of a "add a little coffee to my creamer" kind of girl, so I love the french vanilla cappuccino from those machines in a gas stations *blushing*....But will get the skinny french vanilla latte with a shot of sugar free caramel from Starbucks every once in a while, or if I am freezing I will hold a cup of any blend...drinking it is another story.
Biglang nagtawanan kami lahat ...hahahahhahahahhahahhaha...ambisyusa at ambisyuso kaming lahat wala naman starbucks sa davao kung hindi nescafe hahahahhahaha, mga feeling-feelingan lang ang mga bagag nawong hahahhahahaha..pero ito lang ang masasabi ko.
Edz : I admit, I am really fond of instant coffees, it’s more of the normal thing here in our country, as compared to the freshly brewed which we find really strong. Since I tend to easily get bored with some products, I try a lot of new things, and Nescafe Viva Vanilla is I can say the best instant coffee I have tried ever.
Thankfully, Nescafe released a new product, to give flavors to their normal coffee. Viva Vanilla tastes really sweet and nice. It’s more of a comforting taste, which is really nice specially when you drink it during mornings after you wake up, or during rainy days just to keep you warm.
I also really love the smell of the coffee, it really goes well with the taste and the comforting effect of the whole drink. They have the Viva Vanilla Coffee in sachets, and I do hope that they would start selling them in big containers, cause I always go back to the grocery to buy more cause it’s usually gone before I know it.
The price is also not that bad, it’s a little more expensive that the normal 3 in 1 instant coffee of nescafe, but still it’s still cheap, I think it only costs around 6php per sachet, as compared to the normal 4php. It’s really not bad, if you compare it to brewed coffee which would cost you around 20php per cup if you brew it at home, and around 80php per cup if you have it on a shop.
Ang Pagtatahi
matagal nang napunit ang seda
sayang naman daw kung itatapon na
gayong may gamit pa bilang blusa
naghanap ako ng seda
at kahit na anong tela
na babagay at maaring itagpi
upang mapakinabangan pang konti
matagal na pagtitiyaga
na ang blusang suot
nanatiling punit
at walang telang kapanit
subalit ngayon nakita na rin
ang kalapat nitong blusang punit
nakahanda na ang karayom
nakahanda na ang sinulid
bukas itatagpi sa punit
ang telang napulot
sa pag-asang pagkaTAHI
magamit pa ng maraming araw
ang blusang AKO...
And the Rest was a History:
Hahabol ako para may blogz lang na mailagay hahahahha, no just kidding!
Love you guyz...Happy Weekends.!!!
Do you believe in fairies? When i was a little girl (batang bayot) i truly believes in fairies! Since there are going to be fairies in our lives., i had to make a special spot for them to come and visit. We love flowers and garden fairies so we had to make a special Fairy Garden.
First, i had to have a plan so i drew a picture...so mao ni akong drawing ...SURPRISED!
You can see i knew exactly how i wanted my Fairy Garden to look.
I took a trip to the nursery and bought a variety of plants varying in shapes and texture. I was very good at picking the plants out. I knew I needed moss as a ground cover , something soft for the fairies to walk on. I also needed very small rocks for their path, so a pretty colored pea gravel would work for that.
Since I needed a few structures to add to our garden, I took a walk to the park with scissors and a bag. I went on a adventure choosing straight twigs for the gazebo and fences and bendable branches to make a garden arbor.
Here is the result of our little Fairy Garden that I named,"The EDZ Fairy Garden."
You can see from the pictures that I used a large ceramic pot. After making this one I would use a pot at least the size of a wine barrel. It will give you much more room to add things as you go. I had to eliminate the idea of a shell bath for the Fairy Queen and a clothes line to hang their fairy clothing to dry after they washed it in the pond. Your imagination will totally take over, trust me on this. I see many other Fairy Gardens in my future.
Suggested steps to take:
Make a drawing or plan
Decide which container you will use
Buy a variety of plants and ground cover
Try making your own structures using natural materials
If natural materials are not available I am sure Michaels would have some things to use in miniature
Place plants where you think you want them to go and then plant the plants first.
Next do the mossLast, add the garden path and the pond. Now you are ready to place your structures
Remember to name your Fairy Garden. Now you have to wait for the fairies to arrive.
Fairies usually come out some time after midnight and before dawn. Since my Fairy Garden was named the EDZ Fairy Garden I was sure they would leave something like crystals behind and maybe a rose petal or two from swimming in the pond. You know they dry off with rose petals. The next morning when i woke up, i went to see my Fairy Garden and guess what? There were three crystals and two rose petals on the moss and even a flower floating in the pond. I do believe in Fairies, how could I not?. What a fun day it was!
Hay! kapoy ug lupad-lupad tugdong sako projek sako diri sa akong fairy garden with matching emote ko nganhi! PAKKKKK...
"Enjoy the Process." Of: Using your imagination and creating something wonderful.
This is one for the record books which should not be missed!
Tomorrow night, November 16, 2011, in celebration of the 8th People’s Congress which gathers all the members of the FRAME Program of the local government of General Santos City to celebrate and fellowship, something magical will happen!
For the first time ever in the country, 10,000 SKY LANTERNS will be released by the members themselves in an event that showcases the strength and impact of the program in many facets at the General Santos City Oval Plaza.
Be there to witness this historic event!
Source: Posted Bariles , GENSAN NEWS ONLINE MAG
The FRAME Program:
The “Family Resource Allocation Management and Enhancement” (FRAME) Program is basically a community and value-based capability building program aimed at empowering communities and constituents to socio-economic engagements and self-help livelihood opportunities. It is a special program of the Local Government of General Santos as an anti-poverty strategy.
Generally, FRAME Program is a mass-based savings system where people and community own a project which operates on trust, love, cooperation and mutual help. Likewise, it promotes family values, spirituality, moral recovery and strengthening positive virtues rather than promoting the dole-out and poverty mentality of Filipinos.
FRAME Program has been existing for more than eight years since its inception in year 2003 during the time of then mayor and now Congressman Jun Acharon. It evolved from a pilot savings program at the Field Operations Division of the City Social Welfare and Development Office to a mass-based savings system now existing in 26 barangays that mobilized more than forty thousand members to date under the leadership of Mayor Darlene Antonino-Custodio.
“8th People’s Congress Theme: RE-IMAGINE. RE-INVENT. RESPOND. | God-given Power Unframed.”:
The chosen theme is essentially a statement of conviction commanding the human being to re-imagine possibilities, re-invent approaches and strategies, and respond to the changing time’s challenges.
In today’s unpredictable times and fast-paced evolution, all that the individual can do is prepare for a volatile future. Man is after all born and equipped with innovativeness, ingenuity, virtues and values basic in him. To respond to the demands of contemporary times, man has to harness his basic faculties. Individuals, communities, and families have to adapt to economic, cultural, political, environmental, and sociological landscapes that change its face by the tick of the clock.
There is so much that man can do if he unleashes the human potential he is endowed with. There are no boundaries to what the human spirit can achieve. There is no framing of his capabilities which are God-given.
The theme basically sends a message that empowering one’s self starts from rediscovering his basic human strengths – the goodness and spirit that lies within every soul. These and all, are what this year’s congress aims for the FRAME members to imbibe.
Through time, FRAME is already beyond a social program. It has become a dynamic platform where positive transformation unfolds.
VISUAL THEME AND LOGO:
The visual rendering of a human figure carrying a lighted torch is a declaration of man’s energy to live with meaning, a celebration of the gift of life. Unafraid by darkness of turbulent times, he carries a burning passion to illumine and influence the world.
The colors Red, Orange and Yellow are the colors of a flame. These colors translate the vibrancy of the event, hence used in tshirts, promo materials, and other visual elements.
The flood of flame colors is in itself a portrayal of illumination, an intense visual statement that FRAME as a program is a medium that lights and illuminates. It thus, should radiate and effect positive influences.
This bulalo recipe was originally published in January 1, 2010. I am updating it because during our recent visit to Bankerohan meat market in Davao City, as I watched the butcher chop the whole beef shank that I had chosen, I realized that the secret to prevent the bone marrow from falling and liquefying in the broth was so obvious, and I wondered why I didn’t think of it before.
Bulalo can mean any of three things: 1) the marrow in the bone of the beef shank; 2) the cut of the beef, i.e., bone-in beef shank; or 3) the soup itself which consists of the bone-in beef shank and vegetables. The soup is a simple dish to prepare, really; but the flavorful broth and the texture of the meat makes it a treat.
If you intend to cook beef shank as bulalo, ask the butcher to chop the shank in such a way that you have one large piece with one end open — the chopped end — while the other end, the one where the leg had been cut off right on the joint, remains closed.
In classy restaurants, bulalo commands a high price. In the province of General Santos City where selling beef and beef by-products is a major means of livelihood, roads are lined with restaurants and small eateries with bulalo as a specialty. In Makati City, there is a small eatery called Soseng’s–a sidewalk affair actually–where one finds yuppies and businessmen having a lunch of hot bulalo. Street parking is a common problem. There was one time when we had to park two streets away and wait for a vacant table for several minutes. That is how popular bulalo is among the Filipinos.
Ingredients :
1 piece of bulalo (bone-in beef shank), about 1 kg. in weight
1 whole onion
1 whole garlic
1 bay leaf 6-8 peppercorns patis (fish sauce)
1/2 head of white cabbage
250 g. of potatoes
Place the beef shanks in a large casserole. Cover with water. Add the whole onion, garlic (pierced in several places with a sharp pointed knife), bay leaf and peppercorns. Season with patis. Set over high heat and bring to a boil, removing scum as it rises. Lower the heat, cover and simmer for two hours (longer, for a more flavorful broth) or until the beef is fork-tender. Alternatively, pressure-cook for one hour and 30 minutes.
Using a slotted spoon, carefully remove the beef shanks and transfer to a tureen or serving bowl. Strain the broth. Reheat to boiling point.
Peel the carrot and potatoes and cut into chunks. Core the cabbage and cut in half. Trim the ends of the pechay. Add the carrots to the broth and simmer for 5-7 minutes. Add the potatoes and cabbage leaves and simmer for another 8-10 minutes. Lastly, add the pechay leaves and simmer for another 3 minutes.
Scoop the vegetables out and arrange around the bulalo. Pour in hot broth and serve at once.
Unya ako ani karon taman nalang ko sa kitkit ug BUKOG ani...kay hurot ang BULALO...wala na DOG SHOW nah! aw..aw ..aw...
Isang araw nakipagchikkahan si marcelina sa aking mother sa sala namin ( matching arrange-arrange pa sa photo album si mother habang ka talk si marcelina).
Marcelina : ( pabulong sa sarili mode pah!) I can't imagine this, hmmpp grrr...
Nathy(mother): unsa ba'y imong gikalagutan dinha auntie? Wala diay ka karecieved ug txt? Ana man gyud na ang network dito sa pinas bha!
Marcelina: It's not that I can't receive any messages, it's just that I was at a place with a weak cellular signal. You see, even though longer wavelengths have the advantage of being able to diffract to a greater degree and are less reliant on line of sight to obtain a good signal, it can still attenuate significantly. And because the frequencies which cell phones use are too high to reflect off the ionosphere as shortwave radio waves do, cell phone waves cannot travel via the ionosphere.
- Tumalikod nalang bigla ang aking mother (nosebleed) naloka sa statement ni marcelina, at binulong sa sarili ..."English can be learn,but Beauty cannot."
'm easy to be with and very accomodating. I'm very loyal to my friends, i treasure them a lot. I love my family so much. I love God the most. I listen to music for fun. I know how to have fun but I'm not a party girl. They say it's not hard to like me and to get along with me, that's true and that's one thing I'm proud of about myself. I like hanging out with people with good sense of humor.. My smile is my best accessory. I love my color and I'm proud of it. There are some who believe that I owe them something.But they're wrong, I owe nothing to no one but myself..I'll take it from there.My life is not a game that I play to entertain you.And if you can do it better, then you're welcome to my fame.I don't waste my time correcting myths and rumors.You believe what you wanna believe.
I'll live my life the way I want it....... This is my life its not what it was before all the feelings that i've shared and all my mistakes,one life contained they all finally start to go away and now i feel like i can face the day i can forgive and i'm not ashamed to be the person that i am today. These are my words that i've never said before and i think i'm doing okay and this is the smile that i've never shown before, now i'm back and ready to start anew. . Indeed very simple and God Fearing yet sexy and attractive then. . Smooth and slim. With fair complexion and physically fit. Of course with kissable lips and a expressive eyes. Most of all with good values and a nice breeding. I am very sweet and caring person. Understanding and honest. I am a home buddy person who is very good in cooking and doing household chores. I cannot enumerate all of the adjectives that can describe me as a person because i believe that my smile describes all the good aspects both inside and outside of being as a individual. If only you can borrow my eyes, you will see the best of me.
The story of Dyesebel begins when an amnesiac mermaid-turned-human named Lucia fell in love with a human. They got married and had a beautiful baby, but instead of human baby she delivered a mermaid. The child is called "Dyesebel" . Although surprised by their daughter's strange form, Lucia and her husband Tino promise to love their child no matter what.
But in no time at all, their neighbors discovered the couple's secret. When the community is hit with a series of catastrophes, the town believes that the anomaly is caused by Dyesebel; an accusation that leads to Tino's death and Lucia to offer her only daughter to the sea, where she would belong.
Unknown to Lucia is that in the heart of the sea, Dyesebel's adventures and misfortunes will begin. It is within the confines of the waters that Dyesebel will lead a new life-a journey that would take her to the depths of the sea, as well as to chaos of the city. Dyesebel discovers that she can also be a human being by visiting Amafura to get a secret necklace which makes her a human; but a price must be made, for her to sacrifice her true possession, in order to gain something special.
On a clear day, they said you could see a whole lot of Baguio from this hill. In the afternoon, one could catch the sun as it descends at this mountain city. But the moment we got there, everything was covered by a thick wall of mist and only the crumbling structure of the Diplomat Hotel stands amidst, one of the famous haunted places in Baguio.
The hill got its name from the Dominican Order who built a vacation house on a 17-hectare property acquired from the previous American owners of the lot. The structure built from 1913 to 1915 was originally a vacation house which was briefly converted to a school to take advantage of tax exemptions. Finding the place was too small for teaching purposes, it was reverted back to a vacation house.
During World War II, refugees sought shelter in these walls but it was bombed by the Japanese damaging the building and killing a number of people. There were also reports that it was used as a sanitarium by the Japanese. A few years after the war, the place was rebuilt.
In 1973, Tony Agpaoa, a Baguio-based faith healer and businessman acquired the place and named it Diplomat Hotel. The interiors were renovated to have 33 rooms in which most would cater to his European clients seeking healing. Unfortunately, Tony passed away of a heart attack in 1987. The hotel ceased operation and has been abandoned ever since.
The hotel is near a residential area and locals have reported hearing screams of agony, banging windows and breaking plates. There were even sightings of “White Lady” in the vicinity since it has been longed uninhabited. Many believed that these paranormal activities were from the people who died during the war.
The hotel ground is open to the public and opens at 6am. From the first look of the 2 story white building, it does exude an air of creepiness. It’s old and decaying and I understand why people would think this place is haunted. But honestly, I never felt anything hostile in the place unlike the Laperal White House. Again, attributing to my hyperactive imagination, I thought I felt only 3 presences in the area. A child of 7-9 years of age running around, more like playing and a middle aged lady, but I’m not sure if she was his mother. There is also an old man in white cloths observing us while we take pictures of the place. Then again, take everything I say with a grain of salt.
If there was any spirits here, they have moved on, probably helped by Tony, the faith healer or the weekly prayer gathering in the area. The place for some time now has been known as a “Prayer Hill” since there are weekly gathering and mass being done in the area. The Hill has also become a popular jogging area for nearby residences. There is also home a radio network nearby. Couples, soon to be wed also frequent the area for their pre-nuptial photo shoots.
What remains of the place now is an old building sitting on a scenic hill. There are rumors that a Korean Company is interested in acquiring this place. I personally think the location has potential. Developed properly it could be a major tourist attraction in Baguio.
How do you say go swimming in spanish?
well i actually dont know so u need to find out some other wayno u just say espiontalo guystaia tonboonu ied fran cheti camo plance thats how u say it i looked it up lol so there
swimming is a life skill to learn. it really helps you get into shape since it works almost every muscle except your brain. with swimming comes diving, surfing, wave boarding, and all kinds of sports. in the summertime swimming is a must.
“Don’t limit my capacity to the four corners of this luxurious abode(balay). Expose me to the real challenges of the outside world. I want to grow as an individual with dynamic experiences.”
Love the Biodiversity and marine Life preserving of surigao city... Come and Capture the Beauty of Surigao.. Thanks for my ever loving a suportive family, friends and new found relatives in alang2x island.
Lake Sebu, the country’s hidden gem, has long been set apart from the rest of the country’s popular destinations.
But this year, this “Summer Capital of the Southern Philippines” has made sure that travelers would re-discover its picture-perfect paradise.
On top of its 7 breath-taking waterfalls, 3 scenic natural lakes and a rich T’Boli culture, South Cotabato’s gem has added a new flavor that would surely give nature-lovers and adrenaline junkies the time of their lives! Get this—a 200-meter zipline ride above 5 of Lake Sebu’s towering waterfalls! That’s the highest zipline in the country!
Located on the southwestern tip of South Cotabato, Lake Sebu is bounded by Sultan Kudarat on its west and Sarangani on its south, making it accessible to the whole SOCCSKSARGEN Region.
Ready, get set, go! They said it was over in a flash but they enjoyed the wild ride.Lake Sebu’s zipline has already drawn thousands of tourists since its opening last year. With a height of 200 meters from the ground and 300 meters above sea level, this is the highest zip in the country.
What’s good about this zipline is that you can either fly solo or by tandem! You can choose from any position--you can sit, do the superman pose or fly backwards.
You are the reason I am. You are the reason, I smile. You make me believe, in me. I wish to have you as my mother, every time I rebirth. My soul, my sweet mom, I love you. And with all of my emotions, I wish you a super happy Birthday.
Happy birthday Mama,
I wish you all the best, a long life full of happiness and peace. I hope that you can achieve your dreams.You are the best mom in the world; I am so blessed to have a wonderful, caring, supportive, successful, friendly and affectionate mother like you.
You always encourage me to achieve my dreams, you make me feel so special, and you are always there for help and advice. You are my inspiring close friend, I always pray for you.I won't forget the concern and fear you felt about me, I will not forget that ever. I wouldn't succeed without your help.
May your birthday bring your way many precious moments , that you'll cherish as loving memories always , wish you a happy birthday .
Once upon a time, there was three little gays went to their fairy GOD MOTHER ,and they ask her that they need such a very classical and eligant beauty to show-up in the bowl party where a handsome prince waiting for them...KAYA ITO ANG SOLUTION SA KANILANG PROBLEMA!!!
The breakthrough in science and modern technology uncluttered tons of road to a broad range of possibilities to achieved the look you wanted. As the increasing promotion and advertisement in the market, broadcast media and print. People are taking the advancement of leading beauty offers such as products, cosmetics and treatment.
The high demand for beauty and perfection are getting to everybody’s nerve. Everybody wants to be somebody else and nobody wanted to grow. It’s disheartening knowing that natural beauty is now becoming less visible particularly to the well-heeled whilst the prevalence of artificial beauty become widely acceptable.
Vain and uncontented people basically will thrown sumptuous amount of money for their vainglory. They undergone plastic and cosmetic surgery just to fit in the shoe of what’s red-hot and current trends set by the popular culture. Their mind becomes contagious, poisoning their thought and soul that beauty is just skin-deep and attainable if you are financial stable.
On the other hand, back then artificial beauty normally not a standard qualification of beauty. For that reason patients who have been subjected to medical or surgical treatments didn’t talk big about it whether it for restorative or enhancing their selves. Every treatment became confidential. But then as the growing demand for superficial beauty teeming the commercial industries. Person who undergone nose, boobs job, butt job, collagen injection, bottocks and many others were expose and uncover. Beauty specialist making artificial beauty more appreciated, taking away the guilt and fear of their patients by making them feel beautiful inside out.
Limitless opportunities are eating up their system and they don’t mind whether other surgical treatment is risky as long as it will enhance their selves. For beauty specialist no one is born ugly. Everybody can be beautiful. All they need is just a stroke of luck which means a trusted surgeon and lotssa money in the pocket.
HHMMPPP...Kaya sigaw ng GENERALS !!! We believe in NATURAL BEAUTY...sabay2x natin isigaw CHARRRR LANNNGGG...!!!
Breaking up is never fun. The end of a relationship means the beginning of a period of mourning and healing for both people. If the break up was mutual both people will experience a period of adjustment where they are getting used to no longer being together. If the break up was not mutual the person who ended things may be dealing with guilt and feelings that they may have made a mistake. The person being broken up with will definitely have to adjust, first to being rejected and second to life without somebody they still care for. How do you get through those first few weeks? Here we list eight essential things everybody must do in the early days of a break up to let the healing begin.
Avoid the former love. Yes, avoid. No, this isn’t being immature. Seeing your former flame can bring out emotions and may cause you do to or say something you will regret. In the first few weeks the best thing you can do for yourself is not be where you know they will be.
Talk out your feelings with close friends. Get everything out so that you won’t hold it inside. Your friends may get sick of hearing you talk about the situation but you need to let out all your feelings and thoughts or they may come back to bite you later.
Cry if you want to. It’s OK to cry over a loss. Don’t hold back, let the tears roll just do it in a safe and private place where it is unlikely to get back to your ex. You don’t want your tears to be used as a guilt trip. Their purpose is to cleanse you of any pain not make your lover come back.
Let go of mementos. Put away or give away anything and everything that reminds you of the relationship. Hide them out of sight so they will be out of mind until you are able to remember the relationship without longing for it to still be going strong.
Don’t slip up and get together with your ex. When you are feeling sad or missing a relationship it can be very easy to fall back in to the arms of your ex but DO NOT DO THIS. This will only set you back and let’s face it, if things ended the relationship wasn’t perfect to begin with so why would you want to rekindle things?
Focus on all the things about your ex that drove you crazy, turned you off, or that you just plain found annoying. Think about these things often and replay them in your mind over and over. Dwell on them. It will make you feel better to remember that your former flame was not perfect and that there are things you won’t really miss.
Think about the mean, cruel or rude things your ex may have done in your relationship. Really give these things play in your memory. Remind yourself that somebody who truly cared for you would not have done such thoughtless things and tell yourself (over and over) that you are better off without that kind of ego crushing behavior in your life.
Maintain a strict no contact policy and stick with it. Don’t pass notes through friends. Don’t make any calls. Stay away from instant messaging or texting on your cell. Just don’t contact your ex until you are totally and completely sure you no longer want to be with him or her. It is the only way.
Mending a broken heart is not easy but it can be done. Just stick to the game plan outlined above and before you know it you’ll be just fine. Good luck!
Moving On After A Relationship Break-Up.One of the most difficult things a person can endure is the loss of a relationship. While the death of a loved one eclipses this loss, a break-up is also, in its own rights, a permanent loss. The relationship, which was once alive and filled with hope has now ceased to exist, leaving at least one of the people involved filled with emptiness and sadness. The following words are intended to provide insight, comfort, and (in our fondest hopes) encouragement. They are directed to the individual who knows that reconciliation is not an option.
When I hear from someone who is going through a romantic breakup, my heart truly breaks for them. Someone they loved is no longer theirs to love and the sadness in their words tells of, not only hearbreak, but a loss of self as well. It seems that one cannot go through a romantic loss without feeling that it's their fault, or that something is wrong with them. Before going any further, let's put an end to that myth immediately. People of all weights, heights, classes, looks and sizes have people who love them. There is no one "mold" that love-worthy people are cut from. Anyone who would insist on someone fitting into a certain mold isn't worth your time, let alone your heart. (More times than not, they aren't exactly cut from Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie's cloth, either!)
In general, breakups happen because the two simply can't find happiness together. Either one or the other realizes that they aren't a perfect match and they decide that it's time to move on. Often they move on, emotionally, long before they move on physically. Aloofness, coldness, a tendency to start arguments are all signs of someone beginning to pull away.
Even though it can be the hardest thing in the world to do, you have to let them go. If you plus him or her do not add up to both of you being happy, the equation isn't meant to be. For your own sake, as well as theirs, let go and move on - allowing them to do the same. The man or woman of your dreams may be just around the corner waiting for you. If you don't move on, you'll never find them!
How do you deal with the sadness in the meantime? First of all, stop kicking yourself. You are worthy of being loved! This particular relationship failed, you didn't. Learn from this lesson and move past it. Don't keep thinking about this person, by doing so you're just giving them more and more power to hurt you.
There's a great saying, "If you want a certain trait, act as though you all ready have it." I can't overstate how much truth lies in these words. Act as though you've moved on, and before you know it - you will have moved on. When you see this person in public, don't look at them waiting for them to see you or speak - just go about your business, smile and live your life. Life's too short and precious not to be lived with a smile on your face.
Whatever you do, don't let thoughts of making this person jealous, or thoughts of bitterness enter into your mind. You're much better than that! Just keep saying, "I'm moving on." Pretty soon, you will have done just that.
In the meantime, keep busy. Volunteer to work more hours, if that's an option. Choose an author who you've never read before and start reading each and every one of their books. John Grisham, Dean Koontz, Nicholas Sparks - they each have plenty of great books to choose from. Koontz, alone, has a gazillion you could tackle. He's my personal favorite author, so I may be biased, but I'd grab "Watchers", "Midnight" or "Odd Thomas" and then move on from there. When reading Koontz, you can't feel anything but goosebumps. If you're a little timid, stick with Sparks (my next favorite) - he's incredibly gifted but without the demons, monsters, aliens, etc.
If you have someone to talk to, do so. But try to move past conversations centering around the loss as soon as possible. Concentrate on what you have rather than what you've lost.
Above all, remember, love will come around again. But if you're looking BACk you'll miss it! Look forward, wear your best smile, and concentrate on getting the most from life. This sort of mentality and lifestyle will attract the sort of person you need in your life. The sort of person who'll make you smile so much your face hurts. He or she is out there waiting for you, maybe even going through what you're going through right now. The sooner you move on, the sooner you'll find real, lasting love. You deserve it!
i say that love is magical and only happens between two people. I say it's also tragic, sad. It's a bit of the birght and dark side. In my opinion, i see love as a test on how two people could actually hold on together and overcome all the problems they are facing.
I've been witness this year, on more than one occasion, of relationships that fell apart. The stories differ from one another: long distance relationships, falling out of love, unhappiness in the union. It's all very saddening.
It only rings so painful when you've felt it too.
Break ups are hard. And life shattering. And will make you question what it was that made it fail. It will make you doubt yourself - no matter how great you truly are - and it will born you new fears and feelings of incompetencies. My heart goes out to those who are currently tending the wounds of a broken heart.
In life, it's not always apples and rainbows. And I know how devastating break ups can be. Believe me. But life is all about falling down and standing up. Be strong and keep your hearts open. You can rise above this eventually.
It gets better.
Hi to my friends, why we miss someone this christmas?
because We need her/him
In my opinion when We meet somebody sometimes He/She with his/her attitudes can becomes in a special person for us, so all things that She/He shares with us like time, feelings, ideas, messages, letters make us feel a better person.
I think that a special person sows a grain of love in our heart and I believe that When We meet a lovely person We become in a stronger person because He/She gives us part of his/her essence( soul)
We are made of small pieces of all nice people that We have met in our life.
When our friend or love leaves us the pain can be unbearable because We need him/her and We need all the things that They gave us ( no material things)
I miss someone because I Feel that He/She is essential for me like the air to live. —
ang ganda pa ng lola ninyo! super fresh, dula dayon ug farmville...haskang pananum intawon ug MELON.
Late afternoon:
ari manharvest na sa MELON na ginaingon sa farmville.
Because I sure am. I first saw this game at a friends house. He was on his facebook profile. He started playing this game called farmville by zaynga. I knew about other games they had made like poker and mafia wars which were awesome especially poker. Well simply all you do on farmville is.. grow crops as a farmer. I was like who the hell would want to be a farmer.. Especially a farmer on the INTERNET of all places. But soon I came to love playing the game. Designing your own farm, set up little areas for your animals, waiting for your crops to grow (which is really boring I must say), hoping you didn't wait too long and the crops wilted. Some features I like about farmville is the wide variety of trees present. They make the farm much more colorful . I even designed with a small sort of a park in the corner of my farm with many trees growing, benches a pond and even ducks to go with the pond.
At around 7pm:
Gikapoy na ang vayotz manharvest drowsy na sakit pa ged ang mata!
Finally:
ug sa dihang,hagba pa gyud ang vayotz...AGNAS ang maharvest dili ang MELON...
So my questions to you are- Are you addicted to farmville as I am? How big is your farm and what crops do you grow the most? Do you like arranging your small plot like a real farm with a separate place for the animals a nice big patch of crops?
Isang araw, nagkatuwaan ang mga baklang named B1 and B2...magchachat daw sila ...hmmmp take note AFAM raw! ang gusto nila oowss so im sure mataray talaga sila B1 and B2 so kaya ang lola EDZ ninyo chupwera ang beauty akitch...inshort sa side nalang ako nakaupo with matching calls nalang ako habang observed to the max nalang ang beauty ko.
Please read there short conversation...
Take note ha! with matching cam2cam pa sila...
Syempre ang narecord ko lang ang cam namin ...set-UP ko na bago sila nagchat,para perfect!!! at hindi alam nila yon.
So pumunta na sila sa hmmmp...i forgot the site charooot melon.com.ph and then..ayan na ha!
CHANNEL: Connecting to server... Looking for someone you can chat with. Hang on. You're now chatting with a random stranger.
Say hi! A word of advice: "asl" is boring. Please find something more interesting to talk about! ( Shock ha!, may ganoon na advice ang channel na pinasukan nila, TARAY!)
AFAM : hi
AFAM: m or f?
B1: Hi sexy
B1: Female
B2: *Female
( full smile ang duha ka bayot!) mas lalo ng...
AFAM: im male ;-]
B2: Ooooh
B1:(smile mode lang) at nagtanong
B1: You 30?
AFAM: no 22 u?
( perting lipaya sa mga bayot pagbasa na 22 lang ang keks oi!)
B1: we're 18 and 19 yrs old (kugmo lang!)
B2: I love older men
B1: They're sooooooo
B2: OMG
Ug sa dihang chikka dayon ang mga bayot na manyak ug...
B2: I'm soooo horney
B1: So so horney
At reply naman ng bagets...
AFAM: me too!
B1: I. Love. You. So much!
and:
AFAM: what size tits do u have?
Problema na ang mga bayot kay wala silay ipakita na BOOBS, yehey!
Kaya tinawag nila ako pero hindi ko sila pinansin kunwari, kaya facute nalang ang duha!
AFAM: cos i thought tht u would have big juicy tits ;-)
B1: Ohhh...
B2: I'm removing my blouse.
AFAM: good :D
B1: You're slow.
B2: Real slow.
AFAM: ur a guy
AFAM: a real guy
and ...
B1: Ngekk, kalain chaka sakpan tah!
B2: CHARA madam...
CHANNEL : Your conversational partner has disconnected.
Another:
You're now chatting with a random stranger. Say hi!
B1: gay?
AFAM: maybe
AFAM: are u gay?
B2: yeah
AFAM: cool i love gay
B2: are you?
AFAM: i'm a man who loves gay
B1: how does that work?
B2: so you are gay?
AFAM: no i'm a man
AFAM: i'm really a man
AFAM: i just love gay...
B3: are you saying gay people aren't men?
(eksena ang bayot na usa... kay murag na intrega sa show)
AFAM: i mean men
AFAM: i love when guys kiss each other
AFAM: but i'm not gay
AFAM: i'm a man
B1: that's weird
B2: why do you like guys kissing each other?
B1: don't you like it?
AFAM: yeah
B1: but i'm gay
B2: and we are both gays!duh hello!
(bulong sa sarili mode: Kadiri kaya maghalukay mi diri super yakkk ha!)
At ito na naman ang nangyari! ng nakita si EDZ ng AFAM.
AFAM: JENNY IS THAT YOU!?
AFAM: I love you...Jenny.
Natulala si EDZ, nakisuyo nalang si Edz habang lumapit sa kay B1 and B2.
Nakasmile nalang sila habang sinusulat ni B1 ang sabi ni Edz sa AFAM.
EDZ: I hate you
EDZ: creep
EDZ: just leave me alone
AFAM: I'm sorry Jenny!
EDZ: no you're not
AFAM: I know. I just want you back in my life...
EDZ: you just want my gay pipes
AFAM: Kinda... But you're more than that to me.
EDZ: lyer
EDZ: I just used you for that average sized dick of yours
EDZ: cuz no one else would hook up with me
AFAM: But I SWEAR it got bigger!
AFAM: I can even take those fancy new pills for you.
AFAM: Jenny?
AFAM: Marry me.
EDZ: hmmm
EDZ: how about
EDZ: no NOOOOO!!!!
AFAM: What if I...
AFAM: told you I wanted to grow old with you?
AFAM: I'm finally outta jail! I'm just on parol. :D We can do crazy shit againn!
Shock ang mga bayot..nisamot imbudo kalag ni EDZ.
EDZ: why the fuck would i want to grow old with you?
AFAM: Because I know you want me too. And as much as ou say you hate me, you know how much fun we used to have in my room.
AFAM: Under our cover.
AFAM: *covers
AFAM: With the lights off.
AFAM: Doing who knows what.
EDZ: old people sex is disgusting
AFAM: But I'm not old remember! Just 15 years older than you!
CHANNEL: Your conversational partner has disconnected.
I do actually use webcams for what they were meant to be used for, for seeing far away relatives and having a conversation where i can see them, i really like that concept. I doubt most people use it for xrated stuff, well not all the time.
